Review of "Flirting Made Easy"

Ok, here it is just like I promised. I just finished reading the book "Flirting Made easy". The author wrote me to say that she changed the title of the book to "From Flirting To Forever". The reason for the name change is that the way the book is written, the idea of flirting doesn't stop with just getting a guys attention. She is conveying the message that the art of flirting is a necessary skill to learn in order to keep the attraction going.

I have to say that I even learned a few things from it. I am just an ordinary woman, who is in the dating pool just like all of you. I am not an expert on relationships, but I started this blog for women like myself who may be struggling when it comes to dating and maintaining a relationship.

We have all been there, you meet someone and connect( or so you think) only to never hear from them again. Why? What went wrong? You ask yourself over and over, what could I have done differently?

Well since reading this book, I have a little better understanding of how men think. The author polled a group of men and asked them questions on attraction and used their real life answers as a basis for this book.

Like the two reasons men wont commit;

1. You're not the one
2. He's not ready

If a man thinks you're the one, and he is ready to have a relationship, there isn't anything he wont do to make that happen. On the other hand, if you're not the one or he's not ready, he'll walk away.

The group of men were asked this question: What do they want and need from a woman. Their answer was, to feel needed and valued as a man. Just like women, they want to feel like they are needed and wanted and they they are special to us. Guy's tend to walk away when they feel that we really don't need them for anything other than sex.

And how about overcoming shyness? This was a problem for me too. There is a section outlining how you can overcome shyness once and for all. How to change your attitude and feelings about yourself, that will change the way guys see you outwardly. It's a proven fact that everyone seems to be drawn to the popular or outgoing girls. If you notice, at a party there's always one girl who seems to have all the guys attention, and she's not overly beautiful but she seems to be the center of attention.

I enjoyed the book, a very good read and learned some new things to apply to my life about confidence and attracting men. I highly recommend it!

Flirting Made Easy!